When the Career That “Should” Fulfill You No Longer Fits: Honoring the Call to Pivot
What happens when the career you’ve worked so hard to build, the one that looks great on paper, starts to feel like a life that no longer fits?
If you’ve been feeling a tug in your gut, a restlessness you can’t quite explain, or even a quiet burnout that no amount of PTO can fix… you’re not alone. And today, on International Career Pivot Day, I want to speak directly to you.
My Own Pivot
I spent 13 years as an attorney, doing meaningful work with a prestigious legal organization. I advocated for low-income clients, trained new attorneys, and led impactful policy work. On paper, it looked like success. And for a long time, I felt my career was so rewarding.
But after a decade, something was changing. Behind the scenes, I was exhausted. Disconnected. Bored.
I’d show up to Zoom meetings and zone out. I’d avoid my inbox. The phone ringing gave me anxiety. I started taking longer to finish tasks, felt drained, and was losing interest in even socializing with my co-workers, whom I absolutely adored. The work wasn’t bad, it just wasn’t right for me anymore.
I had outgrown it. I was that “something” that had changed.
And it was terrifying to admit that. Because I had built an entire identity around being a lawyer. What would it mean to let that go?
Eventually, I stopped ignoring the signs and took a leap… into coaching, entrepreneurship, and building a career that aligned with the woman I was becoming.
Today, I support high-achieving women who are navigating the same kind of career transitions I once faced. Women who are burnt out but brilliant. Stuck, but full of potential. Ready for more, but unsure of what “more” looks like.
Signs You Might Be Ready for a Pivot
You don’t have to wait for a full-blown crisis to make a change. Often, the signs are already there. Here are a few to pay attention to:
You dread Mondays (and sometimes Sundays, too).
Your body feels it: fatigue, headaches, tension, or stress-related symptoms.
You’re successful… but not fulfilled.
You’re constantly fantasizing about doing something else.
You’re starting to feel like you’re living someone else’s life.
You’ve plateaued in growth or impact, and deep down, you crave more.
You feel pulled toward something more aligned, but fear is holding you back.
Why We Stay (Even When It Hurts)
Women, especially high achievers, moms, caregivers, leaders, are often conditioned to put everyone else first. We stay in roles because we don’t want to disappoint others. Because we’re afraid of the unknown. Because we’ve invested too much to “start over.”
But here’s the truth: A pivot is not starting over. It’s starting from experience.
Your past isn’t wasted, it’s your foundation, your strength!
And when you pivot with intention, you don’t abandon your skills or your value. Instead, you repurpose them.
How I Support Women Through Their Career Pivot
This work is personal to me. That’s why I now support women, especially busy, driven professionals, who are standing at the crossroads of “I should be grateful” and “I know I’m meant for more.”
Inside my coaching programs, workshops, and membership community (The Collective), I help women:
Clarify what’s next: career-wise and life-wise.
Reconnect with their values and vision.
Build confidence and trust in their decisions.
Create strategic plans that make the pivot feel possible, not overwhelming.
Navigate the messy middle with grace, support, and real tools.
Tips for Navigating a Career Pivot
If you’re in the thick of it—or even just thinking about it—here are a few steps you can take today:
1. Listen to yourself.
That inner knowing? It’s trying to tell you something. Start journaling your thoughts, reactions, and energy levels throughout your week. You’ll see patterns emerge.
2. Define what “more” means.
More money? More impact? More time freedom? Get clear on what you actually want before jumping into a job search.
3. Don’t do it alone.
Talk to a coach, mentor, or trusted friend who sees the whole you, not just your resume. Support makes all the difference.
4. Audit your strengths and skills.
Instead of focusing on what you’re leaving behind, get curious about what you’re taking with you. What are you great at that you love doing? What are your transferable superpowers?
5. Take one aligned step.
Sign up for a class. Update your LinkedIn. Schedule a networking chat. Action breeds clarity!
You’re Allowed to Pivot.
You’re allowed to evolve.
You’re allowed to want more ease, more purpose, more joy.
You’re allowed to change your mind, even after years of climbing one ladder.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
If you’re considering a pivot, I’d love to support you. Whether it’s through private coaching, a workshop, or joining The Collective, you have a place to land and grow here.
Today is your reminder that success isn’t a box you check. It’s a life you build.
Ready to take the next step?